Sister With Attitude?

For 10 years I have give my sister a few hundred dollars a month. She is now 64. She draws only $581 in Social Security. She is also on the Section 8 program %26amp; has no other income. I gave her $500 for x-mas in presents. $300 H.E.B. gift cards VCR, shoes .The last year she has become very verbally abusive. No matter what is said she will cut you down %26amp; I had to tell her to stop E-Mailing me. We live in different towns. I do not mind helping help because I have the money, but I do not like being treated with dis respect either and it only makes me not want to give her anything even though I know she is in need of it to pay her $125 rent and her electric %26amp; other bills. It is like she doesn't even appreciate it %26amp; she expects it. Like. "what are you going to do for me next?" I don't like the treatment I get %26amp; I feel like I am being used %26amp; I know she has a mental problem because people don't act like this or treat someone bad who is trying to help them. I don't know what is wrong.

Sister With Attitude?
...enjoy the time with her!
Reply:talk to her about it.


invite her over and casually mention it. dont just demand that she needs to be nice to you or you will cut her off, instead approach it by saying something like "ive noticed that you have been seeming a little bit upset lately, is everything ok?"


she is your sister, and as it sounds yo are her best friend. she will tell you.
Reply:Is she on some kind of medication? I had this problem with my aunt for a little while and it turned out to be one of the meds the Dr. had put her on was not a good mix with some of the other meds she was on. Talk to her talk to her Dr. maybe even her neighbors and see if anyone else has noticed this change. and go from there. But u dont have to tolerate abuse of any kind just be sure that its not unintentional. Good luck and God bless
Reply:Naw boo know mental problem. She is milking you and because you wont stand up for your self she will continue to. Tell her untill she can respect you then you dont have nothing for her. YOU KNOW THAT SAYING. You dont miss something untill its gone. Well if i were you i would get gone . Let her suffer . Let her know that she cant treat you like that and exspect to get stuff from you. **** tell her to upgrade and find someone that likes to be used because you are not that one. Then through up the DEUSES ( peace sign)
Reply:suze orman and oprah just did a show about this, you need to stop giving her money.......immediately
Reply:Yea, sounds like mental issues.... If you want to keep helping her.... Just make arrangments to pay the bacis for her yourself, then cut her off the spending cash.... Thats what I would do.
Reply:Tell her your not going to give her another dime until she goes to the dr to have herself checked out and see if maybe she doesn't have some kind of chemical imbalance. I know she is family and it is hard to just walk away but maybe if you teach her a lesson about taking you for granted, and not give her any money for a month she might realise how she is treating you. I know there is no way I could give money or do anything for anyone that doesn't appreciate it. I know you don't expect her to kiss your @ss but she needs to at least treat you with respect!
Reply:She is ungrateful. Even after all her verbal abuse and you insist on helping her financially, then don't have any other contact with her. Just send the checks. But if it were me, I would cut her short and I would check her attitude (tell her about herself).
Reply:she's not on mooching off u, she's mooching off the system and we have to pay her lazy as*s way!!!



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