Ladies, I have a first date today, with a girl I met last semester at school. What shoes should i wear?

I'm driving us down to the ocean, to hang out on the beach for a few hours and eat dinner at a restaurant on the beach later tonight. I'm wearing some tan cargo shorts and a blue polo shirt. Check the pics and let me know... also, should I wear my shoes the way they are in the pics... loose with the laces tucked inside, or tie them up? http://family.webshots.com/album/5591179...

Ladies, I have a first date today, with a girl I met last semester at school. What shoes should i wear?
Here's 30 ways to make her happy:





1. When she asks how she looks, shrug and say "could be better." This will keep her on her toes, and girls love that.





2. Never hold her hand. This can be interpreted as a sign of weakness. If she grabs your hand, squeeze hers really hard until she cries (this will impress her by showing her what a strong man you are).





3. Once a month, sneak up on her from behind and knock her over. Girls are like dogs; they love to be roughed up.





4. Call her in the middle of the night to ask if she's sleeping. If she is, say "you better be." Repeat this 4 or 5 times until morning. This will show her you care.





5. When she is upset about something, suggest to her that it might be her fault. This will pave the way for her own personal improvement, and every girl needs some improvement.





6. Recognize the small things, as they usually mean the most. Then when she's sleeping, steal all her small things and break them, because jewelry is for *******.





7. If you're talking to another girl, make sure she's looking. When she is, stare into her eyes, mouth the words "**** you" and grab the other girl's ***. Girls love competition.





8. Tell her you're taking her out to dinner. Drive for mile so she thinks it's going to be really special. Then take her to a burning tire yard. When she starts to get upset, tell her you were just kidding and now you're really going to take her to dinner. Then drive her home. When she starts crying and asks why you would do something like that, lean over and whisper very quietly into her ear "...because I can."





9. Introduce her to your friends as "some chick." Women love those special nicknames.





10. Play with her hair. Play with it HARD.





11. Warm her up when she's cold...and not by giving her our jacket, because then you might get cold. Rather, look her in the eye and say "if you don't stop complaining about the cold right now, you're going to be complaining about a black eye." The best way to get warm is with fear.





12. Take her to a party. When you get there, she'll have to go to the bathroom (they always do). Leave immediately. Come back right when the party is dying and yell at her the whole way home for ditching you all night.





13. Make her laugh. A good way to do this is if she has a small pet. Kick the pet. I always find stuff like that funny...why shouldn't girls?





14. Let her fall asleep in your arms. When she's fast asleep, wait 10 minutes, then jump up and scream in her ear. Repeat until she goes home and you can use your arms for more important things (like basketball).





16. If you care about her, never ever tell her. This will only give her self-confidence, then you can never turn her into the object she deep down desires to be.





17. Every time you're in her house, steal one of her shoes, earrings or anything else that comes in pairs. Only take one of the pair. This way, she'll go crazy.





18. Take her out to dinner. Right when she's about to order, interrupt and say "no, she's not hungry." Make her watch you eat. Girls love a guy that speaks for her.





19. Look her in the eyes and smile. Then punch her in the face. Girls love a spontaneous guy.





20. Give her one of your t-shirts, and make sure it has your smell on it (but not a sexy cologne smell...a bad smell. You know what I'm talking about).





21. When it's raining, keep asking her if she's crying. She'll say "no, it's just the rain." Ten minutes later, turn to her and just scream at her to stop crying. Girls like a tough man.





22. Titty twisters and plenty of them.





23. If you're listening to music, and she asks to hear it, tell her no. This way she'll think you're mysterious.





24. Remember her birthday, but don't get her anything. Teach her that material objects arent important. The only thing that's important is that she keeps you happy, and your happiness is the greatest present she can ever get.





25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it. Then, next time you know she's coming over on a trash day, leave the trash can open and have the present visibly sticking out of the can.





26. If she's mad at you for not calling her when you say you will, promise her that you will call her at a certain time of the day. This will make sure that she waits by the phone. Tell her when you call that you're going to tell her a special surprise. Now she'll be really excited, then don't call.





27. When your in bed cuddling, fart, then hold her head under the covers. Girls love sharing personal and private things.





28. Open the door for her (pretending like your a gentelman), Then as she walks by, smack her *** and push her through the door. This will create cognitive dissonance in her.





29. Make her a nice dinner, then pass her a salt shaker which you have unscrewed the cap of. Then as she pours salt all over her dinner, point and laugh at her. Keep eating, occasionally looking up and chuckling at her.





30. 'accidentally' call her sisters name out in bed. Then say, "Thats what I'm calling you from now on."
Reply:well you want to look and act like your self dont try and be something your not try and look casual maybe a nice t shirt with dark colored jeans and a good paire of shoes of trainers oh and a good aftershave nothing to cheap smelling hope this helps good luck on your date hop it works out the way you want it too.
Reply:Don't know because your link is bad...it says the picture has been moved.





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Cargo shorts and Polo shirts= those nice dock shoes with the leather laces around the edge and no socks!
Reply:loose cus ur just on the beach but really just be comfortable and good luck hope u hav fun!
Reply:relax dude.....let her do the worrying....you just do the charming.....
Reply:You should treat yourself to a pedicure and wear sandals.
Reply:If you're hoping to get laid, I suggest you go wearing only an edable thong!
Reply:Take my advice never over dress. Always wear something that you may see other people wearing in the location to which you are going. In your situation the polo shirt is and extremely good choice, and of course the cargo pants well nothing can go wrong there. Cargo pants or jeans are always a good choice for a casual situation. Although i said never over dress never under dress either. The shoes and you hair are also the key points. I am studding human interactions at the moment and I can tell you that every time you meet someone personally they will first look at your hair, your shoes and finally what you are wearing. So make sure your shoes are appropriate and hair are appropriate. I would wear brown or tan lace up deck shoes nothing too fancy or formal. Just casual, remember girls like what you do for them not how you look for your self.



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